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Life Balance   Written by Jeff Blackman - Word Count: 349
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Thursday night, September 7th, I landed at O’Hare at 6:30.  Hopped in my car, headed north...and as I always do...called my wife.  Sheryl asked, Did you hear what happened?  I said, No!

She told me that there was a tragic fire in our community, just minutes from our home.  It destroyed 16 apartments.  Displaced over 60 people.  And took the life of a four-year-old boy.  (His sister, is a classmate of my daughter Brittany.)

Instead of driving home, I went straight to the site of this tragedy...to see if I could offer any help.  I spoke with members of the American Red Cross...about food, monetary contributions and clothing donations.

I also visited with a distraught tenant, who continued to stare in disbelief at the charred remains of his former home. 

On Friday, Sheryl and I along with our three kids; Chad, Brittany and Amanda...loaded our van with giant plastic bags....filled with shoes, sox, clothing and toys.

Stuff that we had for years.  Stuff that we thought was important.  Stuff that was now...of far greater value to others, than it was to us.

This local loss...powerfully reinforced simple messages to my family.  That it is okay to enjoy your stuff, but it is far more important:

  • To cherish your relationships.

  • To value what can never be replaced, the gift of humanity.

  • To savor each day.

  • To be selfless, not selfish.

  • To call those that you care about.

  • To hug those that you love.


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