Aggressiveness And Sales Success...How Do You Measure Up?  

Sales/Marketing Strategies   Written by Bill Brooks - Word Count: 944
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Are you aggressive enough for sales? On the other hand, are you too aggressive? It would seem that sales - like lots of other things - is a function of balance and consistency. However, there's more to it than that!  

After being in sales for over a quarter of a century (that's a lot of years) I have reached the conclusion that far too many salespeople fail because of a simple lack of aggressiveness rather than from being too aggressive.

Are you able to move the sale along or do you simply fold in the face of adversity? Do you face the challenges of difficult situations with enthusiasm, excitement and a sense of competitive flair or do you fade into the anonymity of compliance?  

Let's take a quick look at situations where a strong sense of aggressiveness is required in sales.

  • Meeting with difficult, demanding prospects or customers.
  • Selling your external demands to your internal customers - credit, delivery, product management and others.
  • Meeting deadlines for proposals, action plans and specifications when you need the cooperation of others.
  • Finalizing transactions in a timely and expeditious way.
  • Vertically integrating existing accounts.
  • Dealing with objections, stalls and price issues.
  • Deflecting competitors' claims, assaults and attempts to win your existing accounts or outsell you with prospects.
  • Handling the adversity that goes with delivery errors, product or service flaws and breakdowns in communication with prospects and customers.

Each and every one of these issues requires you as a salesperson to step up and take an aggressive position rather than being passive and settling for the status quo.

But here's the real problem and central issue. How do you become more aggressive? Can you become aggressive if it's "just not in you?" I believe you can become more aggressive - if you want to do so. By the same token, you have to really (and I mean, really) want to become more assertive, proactive and intense.

Let's take a look at 10 tips to help you become more able to handle the level of energy, commitment, passion and confidence that it takes to turn up your personal level of aggressive behavior:

  • Don't mistake being aggressive with being obnoxious. The two are totally different. The former is all about focused, caring energy and the latter is about boorish, uncaring bravado.
  • Choose the times, circumstances and situations where more aggressive, directive behavior is necessary and decide which mountains are worth climbing.
  • Set very specific goals, objectives and time frames for the successful completion of their achievement.
  • Become passionate about reaching closure on every activity you undertake. Don't settle for things being constantly "in process." Become interested in closure...completion...and achievement.
  • Take ownership for the successful implementation of every prospect, project and activity you undertake. Give some thought to "going public" with your commitment. You will then work more diligently to fulfill the successful completion of those things you have taken ownership of personally.
  • Accept the fact that you can be a friendly competitor while still doing your best to outsell and outwork your competitors. Not by making disparaging remarks - but, instead, by more carefully designed strategies, longer hours and satisfying all requests and demands.
  • Overcome your fear of offending others, rejection or refusal. Be willing to face your greatest fears and realize that even if a prospect or customer says no it doesn't mean it's a fatal (or final) wound to you, your ego or your pocketbook.
  • Give some thought as to what your lack of aggressiveness can eventually mean to your sales career. How many sales, commissions, promotions and opportunities will you lose? What will it mean to your family...your long-term financial future? Is short terms relief ("I don't want to confront anyone") worth long-term failure (I could have...")?
  • Think about times in your life when more aggressive behavior did pay off for you. Reflect on the times when you did step up and it didn't work out for you. Relive your successes and reflect on your failures. I'll bet you still feel good about your success and that the failures are things that you have probably not even thought about for a long, long time!
  • Start by being a bit more aggressive in specific areas where you'll see immediate results. For example, when making appointments, asking buyers to take action, working out terms with your credit department, etc. Reflect on the difference it makes. Then take on bigger issues. And don't look back!

Always remember that in sales it is not always "what" you say that is really important. It is always "how" you say that really does count. The same is true about being aggressive. It is far more a function of your own internal drive and how you control it that will drive your success. Being aggressive doesn't mean being brash, boisterous or bungling. Instead, it means being competitive, cooperative and consistent.

Yes, great salespeople are aggressive. But they're not obnoxious. There is a big, big difference.

Published in FPG’s March 2002 Issue


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