A Few Final Negotiating Considerations

Negotiating   Written by David Rathgeber - Word Count: 884
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As a listing agent dealing with multiple offers, you will focus on maximizing the advantage for your client, at the same time being fair and even-handed with each selling agent, all within the context of local laws and customs.  A specific time should be set to consider all offers, and all parties should be advised.  Critical questions are whether selling agents will present offers in person and whether each will be allowed to hear the other offers.  To the extent that information is power, it is probably better to have agents present their respective offers separately.  If the selling agents are not going to present their offers in person, you might have the offers submitted to you in sealed envelopes to be opened in the presence of the seller at the appointed time.  Of course you will avoid making counteroffers to more than one buyer at a time; your role is to sell the home only once.  If a counteroffer is necessary, set a reasonable deadline for the selected buyer’s response, verbally or in writing according to local custom. 

If your buyer is buying a new home, you are dealing with a professional home seller in a unique market environment.  The new home builder knows where the market is and where his products fit into the price spectrum.  Otherwise, he would be out of business whether his prices were either too high or too low.  New home prices usually will be less negotiable than resale prices.  Sometimes they will not be negotiable at all.  But sometimes a builder will include extras at little or no additional cost.  A builder can add a $4,000 deck during construction of your home for much less than $4,000.  Most builders will help with closing costs by giving a credit.  Sometimes the builder’s agent will volunteer information on standard or even possible additional concessions.  Contracts should be read carefully by both you and your buyer, but be sure your buyer understands that you are not a substitute for a lawyer. 

When your buyer is ready to make an offer on a new home, call the builder’s agent and ask if the builder is considering offers.  The agent wants to see you again.  His job is to bring contracts.  Profitability is someone else’s job.  If the agent has any chance of making an offer work, you will be encouraged.  If he tells you that the list and option prices are firm and there is no negotiation, he is risking your buyer’s business.  But you can expect an accurate answer in any case.  Everyone will agree there is no future in spending an hour or two on an offer that surely will be countered at the list price.  Especially important with new homes: Ask that your buyer’s deposit be held by a real estate firm or by the closing agent.  Real estate broker and closing agent escrow accounts are generally subject to strict governmental controls.  In the event your builder has unforeseen irreparable financial difficulties between the time of contract and the closing, your buyer’s funds will be safe.  Buying a home that is not yet built requires a degree of faith and trust over and above that required for an existing home.  It is especially important to begin the process with a comfortable feeling.

In any event, new home or resale, you often will not know what is in your client’s mind.  Sometime you cannot know because your client hasn’t a clue either.  Not all buyers and sellers express remorse following conclusion of a negotiation, but such feelings are widespread.  As an experienced agent, you can help.  When negotiations are nearing agreement, hopefully at the last stage, play this imagination game with your client.  Ask him to consider carefully the terms and conditions to which he is about to agree.  Remind your client that a contract is binding and that details can be changed only with the agreement of all parties.  Then ask him to imagine that the proposal on the table was finalized and that he has had a good night’s rest and it is now tomorrow morning.  Will he have reservations about the agreement?  Could he have done better?  Remind him that tomorrow morning will be too late to make changes.  Is he sure he wants this proposal to become a binding contract now?  Of course you will be alert to that introspective client who decides to sleep on it.  Just advise that there will be no additional information available in the morning, and that a delay can serve only as an opportunity for the other party to reconsider too: So if the terms are acceptable, sign now.

Published in FPG’s March 2002


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David Rathgeber is consistently among the top Realtors engaged in residential real estate and his talks focus on practical ideas that have been proven in action. He has written for "REALTOR Magazine" and has addressed Realtors on various topics at the national convention. This article is excerpted from David Rathgeber's AGENT'S GUIDE to REAL ESTATE which is available in major bookstores and through Internet book sellers such as www.amazon.com. For information about David’s keynote presentations,



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